My determination to start this New Year off differently led me to get back on Tinder, inspired by recent articles in The New York Times on finding love in 36 questions or less and the critical-mass of dating apps. Or meet new friends. Which was the preface for this meeting, inviting this man to hang out with a group of friends at their Greenpoint workspace without any expectations for romance and a chance at new friendship. But something magical happened that night and my defenses melted into an overwhelming pool of optimism.
What should I do if the girl I like is dating someone else?
What to Do When Someone You Like is Dating Someone Else - Singles Advice
At first it was based on looks and personality. However, as we became closer friends and I got to know her more, I realized there was something more about her that was attractive: her genuine love and thirst for God. After high school ended, I decided to go out of state for school, and gradually, this girl and I began to talk even less. Whenever we talked, though, I was overjoyed with her faithfulness in God, and it spurred me on to pursue God even harder. At first this really broke my heart, and I questioned God as to why this would happen. Was I not quick enough to take initiative? Sure, there were some moments when I thought that some other girl was pretty, but I never found one that I really connected to on a spiritual level or was so in love with God.
Do You Like a Girl Who Likes Someone Else?